Bible Text: 1 Samuel 20 | Preacher: Rev. Dr. Lou Saldiveri | Series: Sunday Morning Worship | — Pastor Lou’s Notes —
Intro: I believe there are friends, acquaintances, and then true friends. If a person has 1 or 2 true close friends, they are fortunate. I am not sure in this day and age if we know or are trained in knowing the marks of true friendship. I would even say that a true friend is more valuable than expensive diamonds.
In this passage, God gives us great insights into the marks of true friendship.

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Friends Value Each Other

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Review 1 Samuel 18:-14 an act of deep humility
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They both loved God
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They didn’t not manipulate each other

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They respect each other’s boundaries

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This is crucial in a true friendship
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Friends Commit to Each Other v. 3-23

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Through good times and bad times

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Even through failure
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Even through illness
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etc
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They keep promises to each other

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Support
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Protect
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Defend
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They were loyal to each other
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Friends Communicate With Each Other v. 1-2

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Open
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Honest
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Grace filled

Closing: As you and I reflect on this passage, remember that true friendship is a twp way street. Too many people make friendship a one way relationship which always ends up in manipulation and frustration. So each person in a friendship needs to develop and cultivate the 3 marks of true friendship.

Also let us reflect on God’s grace. In Christ, we are God’s friends. Look at John 15:13-26. As you and I gather around the Lord’s Table, may I suggest the greatest Friend you and I have is the Lord Jesus Christ. His table is a time to reaffirm our loyalty to the One who died on the cross for my sin.
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Jesus showed us how much He values us when he went to the cross.
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At the communion table, Jesus reaffirms His commitment to us and we need to affirm our commitment to Him
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At the communion table, we can have honest, open, and grace filled communication with Him. This is called confession and repentance.